Dating separated man children
Please trust their counsel, even though it doesn’t make sense to you right now.
I’ll share some thoughts on why I support their position.
It’s a really bad idea to begin a marriage with someone who is breaking the rules about the very security and commitment you will depend on for the rest of your life.
After almost twenty years of counseling with individuals and couples, I have heard just about every rationalization for stepping out of marriage to have an affair.
You don’t want to go into a marriage with regrets or excuses.
I strongly recommend you cut off contact with him until he’s not married anymore and ready to begin dating openly. Geoff will answer a new family and relationship question every Friday.
However, the problem is that while you’re on the hook to be in this relationship, you can’t get to know him better in his own environment.
You can’t meet his friends, his children, or his family.
You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who can publicly profess his love and interest for you.
He is the co-author of “Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity”, available at Deseret Book, and the audio series “Strengthening Recovery Through Strengthening Marriage”, available at
He also writes a weekly relationship column for the St. He holds a bachelors degree from BYU in communications studies and a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy from Auburn University.
He served a full-time mission to the Dominican Republic.
He is married to Jody Young Steurer and they are the parents of four children.