Dating someone unattractive
Let me repeat: It’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex.After coaching women for many years, I already suspected this, but this was a stark realization when you see just how few men you even find to be average looking. Ok Cupid reports that the most attractive women still receive 5X more email than average women and 28X more email than unattractive women.• The average female sender gets a 30% reply rate from the most attractive males. Once again, proving that attractive women are at the top of the online dating totem pole. First of all, count your blessings that you UNDERSTAND this.• The average male sender gets a 27% reply rate from the most attractive females. A huge problem with online dating is that we have an unrealistic set of expectations about how things work.
But neediness is not gender-specific – guys make the mistake of being “needy” too!
Because I’ve been there, and I’ve come out the other side with a husband who adores me, I don’t want you to be alone. I’ve been blissfully married 20 years to a wonderful man, but before I met him, I had little self-esteem and no boundaries. When I met and married my husband, I thought my days of struggling with love were finally over, but they weren’t…
I want to show you the way – and it’s so much easier than you could ever imagine! I’m a trained relationship coach and through my e-book, newsletters, and programs, I’ve taught thousands of women how to attract Mr. I was making the same mistakes I used to and within 5 years, I was on the brink of divorce!
In other words, if you’re getting 1 out of 3 people writing back to you, you’re doing okay. If you’re writing to a very attractive person, you now know you’re competing with everyone else on the website.
You can’t be too disappointed when you don’t get a reply.
I’ll teach you simple shifts in your words and body language that help you connect to a man where it counts… Fortunately, I was able to develop my own relationship Tools and save my marriage. In my love and relationship newsletter I share all of my secrets, insights and Tools to help you attract the right man, inspire him to fall for you and to commit to you.